On holiday recently I found myself on a bus supposedly travelling from Verona to Lake Garda.
The heat was oppressive that day, the Veronese moved amongst the shadows, only we tourists spent time standing in the sun, gazing up at the architecture. The bus was hot and crowded, it smelled of sun tan cream and sweat. I was jammed into a space between someone's rucksack and someone else's shopping. My family were scattered around the bus, squeezed in where they could.
It was some time before it occurred to me that we weren't moving, that we'd been standing at a bus stop for some time. I noticed the driver was speaking on his phone, he was becoming more and more agitated. He made one final angry remark and then hung up. Those of us towards the front of the bus waited to see what would happen next.
The driver turned and shouted something down the bus. Those who spoke Italian sighed or groaned or muttered angrily. Those of us who didn't looked around in confusion. And then one of those lovely European moments that I've experienced only a few times before occurred: people helped each other to understand.
A woman translated the driver's words into English. She let us know that the bus was too full, we all had to get off and wait for another bigger bus. There were still some confused faces, and then another woman translated the English into German. Someone corrected her. I heard someone haltingly translating into French for the benefit of the old couple opposite. Gradually, the message travelled the length of the bus.
I've seen this happen before, on camp sites in France and Germany, whilst walking around Mont Blanc, when I was Interrailing just after university: people helping each other out, helping each other to understand. I love being European, the differences and the commonalities.
I'm really, really sad that soon we'll no longer be a part of this.